Ever feel like a paidhi here?
Apologies to C. J. Cherryh
Yesterday's principle quote -- "Treat them like foreigners, but with respect" -- was actually misquoting the principal, for School 34's principal, in advising teachers how to deal with North Korean students actually said something rather different, as Sonagi reports:
I emailed the writer, Samuel Songhoon Lee, asking for clarification and the original quote in Korean, if possible. Mr. Lee responded promptly. He acknowledged that the quote had caused a stir among both expats and Korean-Americans. He explained that the original article was edited for length, and thus, the quote became distorted. He has given permission for me to post the original quote on blogs:
"애들을 외국인 처럼 대하세요, 그들이 우리들과 다른점을 인정하고 존중해주면서요"
I humbly offer a translation:
"Treat the kids like foreigners. Acknowledge their differences and give them respect."
There are two pages of comments accessible at the end of the article. Mr. Lee posted two long responses on the second page of the comment thread.
The word "but" in the shortened 'quote' would better have been 'and': "Treat them like foreigners,
and with respect." The principal, therefore, is guilty of nothing worse than being misquoted.
However, the misquote rang true for many expats living and working here in Korea, for we know that a lot of non-Western foreigners are treated with disrespect, and even Western foreigners sometimes encounter disrespectful treatment (though I've
personally experienced very little).
I'm not singling out Korea as unique, for I've lived in Germany, where I noticed the same sort of attitude there toward foreigners. From these two cases -- Germany and Korea -- I infer that ethnically based states generally prefer individuals of their own ethnic group.
However, foreigners of the same ethnicity find themselves both included and excluded -- included for ethnicity, excluded for being different. I've seen this in Germany as well as in Korea. Those foreign Germans and foreign Koreans, respectively, who cannot speak their 'native' tongues, encounter disrespect among the natives. I recall being on a bus in Germany and overhearing a German from Russia speaking with a heavy Russian accent trying to communicate with the driver, who was having great difficulty understanding. In frustration, the Russian German exclaimed, "
Ich bin Deutsch!" -- meaning, "I am German!" Some wit from the back called out, "
Man hört es!" -- which translates literally as "One hears it!" But the remark was intended in irony and thus meant something like "You don't
sound German at all!"
North Korean defectors who've come here to South Korea also encounter disrespect for their differences. Ostensibly, they speak the same language, but with a different accent and a somewhat different vocabulary. So, they're marked as 'different.'
Korean-Americans encounter special problems. They're criticized for not being fluent in Korean (unless they are fluent) but often rejected as teachers of English for not being
native speakers of English (even if they speak English as their native language).
One Korean-American woman,
Kyung Eun Davidson, who happens to be an adoptee raised by an American
Jewish family, has written
a letter to the
JoongAng Daily (April 3, 2007) stating that she has encountered all sorts of difficulties here in Korea, including -- in her own words -- "racism." In light of the recent Lee Won-bok controversy over antisemitic cartoons in his graphic comicbook on America, I wonder if Davidson means that she has encountered antisemitic prejudices. She doesn't specify, but I'm quoting her letter here in full:
Globalizing means opening minds
I am a Korean adoptee, and have been living in Korea for two years. Among the most shocking things I have encountered during my life in Korea are the racism and discrimination that I have been subjected to here, repeatedly.
Having never experienced even one incident of racism in the United States, it was utterly bewildering and vexing to be confronted with it in my "motherland."
I recently came to a breaking point when I was told by an English language institute that, "unfortunately, they only want a native teacher." This was imparted just two days after I had been told that my resume was more than satisfactory, and that [the institute] really wanted to schedule an interview with me.
This came immediately after I had quit my job, which was in part because I have been told that Koreans regard adoptees as trash because we have no parents.
I have also been told that my biological parents had to have been both stupid and immoral, and that Americans only adopt Korean children because they get welfare [benefits] as a result.
While I cannot judge the veracity of the first assertion, the latter claim is easily refuted by logic. What country would give people money to adopt children from other countries? Financially, it would be an absurdity.
I have discovered that no matter what I do, I am always confronted with the problem that I'm not Korean enough or white enough to be accepted in this country.
I have found this paradoxical situation rather farcical since, by American standards, my minority status only serves to augment my suitability; as a Jew and a Korean, I am statistically in the top echelon of the academic world [in the United States].
American people treat me accordingly, and I have always been treated no differently from a white American.
If Korea is sincere in wanting to join the global community, its people are going to have to curb their racist attitudes and prejudiced perceptions.
The Korean people need to open their eyes and stop holding adoptees to a double standard.
Either treat us fairly, as fellow Koreans, or treat us with the esteem granted to "native," i.e. white, Americans.
The most interesting part for me is that Davidson states that she has "never experienced even one incident of racism in the United States." I found that surprising, for racism certainly exists in America, even against Asian-Americans, so I can only conclude that she has been rather fortunate.
Anyway, if Ms. Davidson happens to see this blog entry, I'd be very interested in hearing what she means by the "racism" that she has been subjected to here in Korea, for it must be an extremely complex sort of racism fraught with profound ambiguities and ambivalences.
Finally, and only tangentially related, I report that in my class Monday on British and American Culture, I made reference to "
Monty Python's satires of British traditions." Blank looks. Helpfully, I added, "
Monty Python and the Holy Grail?" Blank looks. So, I tried "
The Life of Bryan?" Blank looks.
Stymied, frustrated, and thinking of the
Foreigner Universe, I exclaimed, "I feel like I'm talking to people from a different planet!" My students all laughed, and I added, feeling my age, "Well, the past is another country."
I suppose that the past is also another
universe...
Labels: Foreigners, Korean Antisemitism, Korean Prejudice